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Saturday, January 31, 2009, 4:50:00 PM
Resolving Interpersonal Conflict (Post #2)
ES2007S Post #2 Resolving Interpersonal Conflict - For the choice of an interpersonal conflict situation, I selected a real situation that happened to me while fulfilling my duties during my army stint. - There was a period of time where my superior and fellow officers were away for a course for a few weeks, thus before leaving he left me in charge of the administrative and training matters of the men to me. Including me, there was another officer of which was of equal rank who was to assist me in the planning and carrying out various tasks. - At the beginning, we had an agreement that it would be more uniform for only one person to make the decisions regarding the arrangement of the training schedule, thus it was decided that i would do the planning, while he would oversee and conduct the training itself. - However, after a short amount of time, conflicts arosed. I was more of a strict and routine person, therefore i put it upon myself to be available in the office during office hours, while he was more of a carefree person. For most part of the day he would not be available in the office unless contacted to do so. As such, planning for the activities weeks in advance including of manpower management left me very much occupied and exhuasted, while he was nowhere to be seen. - After awhile, I saw him as a not very dependable person, and being not close with him and partly due to my character, i did not seek his help or asked him for his opinion, as it would take the extra effort to contact him and ask him to discuss with me. Therefore weeks went by without much interaction with him besides informing him briefly of the upcoming trainings, often in a not-too-pleasant tone, while he would accept the information nonchalantly. - The misunderstandings continued until my fellow officers came back from the course, and through mediation and talking things through did we resolve the conflict. - The question now : What was going through the minds of both me and my colleague, and how did we percieved each others actions in our point of view? What could have been done by either of us to resolve the conflict earlier? Instead of waiting for my peers to meditate and help in ironing out the issues. |
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Vanity isn't a sin, a little narcissm wouldn't hurt.Woei Perng Age:24+ D.O.B:03/09/1985 Horoscope:Virgo School:NUS Chemistry Email:wongwp21@hotmail.com What is my proof of existence? When i'm 50 i hope that my daily revelations written in this place will help me in summarising what kind of life i have lead. I've done things i wasn't proud of, Things that i may never be able to forgive myself, but in doing so i've learnt lessons of patience and emotional control, discovering what i had become and how far i have deviated. Change is never too late. |
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